Mid-20s high school drama part 2

Mid-20s Drama Part 2….

So the last installment was about him cursing me out and then apologizing…so let me tell yall what happened next. GET READY….HERE IT COMES…HE WANTS ME BACK!!! Are yall surprised??? I’m not. So let me tell you how the conversation went. I answered the phone and was like yea, whats up. He proceeds to tell me that oh, its been so long since we’ve talked and I miss you…I really think that we should try and make this work and yada yada. So I’m like okay well if this is the case, then whats up with the girl you had up on your profile and it said you were in a relationship with her. So the lying begins…who?? what??? Oh, that girl is crazy…she just wants to get with me and I’m not interested (other things were said), so I’m like whatever. You wouldn’t have in a relationship with her for a day and change it back to just in a relationship for no reason. So he keeps going…saying well you know theres no relationship that’s perfect and I really wanna see you…went as far to say that he wants to make love to me LMAO. So after we get off the phone, my wheels start churning. How am I going to catch him in a lie?? I GOT IT…I’m going to send this girl a message on facebook…not gonna be rude or anything, just ask if shes with him. She actually responds….she said she is in a relationship with him and I start to laugh…NO KIDDING. Shes very straightforward, asks whats going on so I tell her that I was trying to catch him in a lie and I did…without letting her know that he was trying to get back in good. I wasn’t trying to start any mess, but I was trying to see if he was a liar and try to spare her feelings without throwing dirt in his game on her end. Well it was cool until she called him and asked about me….she didn’t want me to call him until she had a convo with me, which she never called but he called instead. He asks if I spoke to her and I played dumb at first and then said yea I did. He blew up….why would you contact her…that’s stupid. I respond by saying dude I asked you if you were with her and YOU LIED….HELLO…ARE YOU SERIOUS? So youre pissed at me bc you lied??? He yells…whatever shawty, lose my number CLICK…phone goes silent…I laugh and instantly want to kick his ass but I calm down. Hes not worth it and she never called, so I assumed that he fed her the same shit he fed me about her. That’s how niggs play their lil game and hes just mad that I peeped game…LAME ASS!

Part 3….So Yall thought it was over…HA HA HA…never…

So its about 11:30pm….I’m chillin, talking to my besties #1&2…2 gets off, just on the phone with #1…phone beeps…number appears that I don’t know…I answer and its 6’4. INSTANT ATTITUDE COMMENCE….He asks me if Ive been calling his girl…YOUR GIRL??? THE ONE THAT YOU DIDN’T CLAIM…WOW…SO I respond by saying I don’t even have her number and why would I want to talk to her…I should’ve hung up but anyway…she gets on the phone and says the same thing…now I’m really annoyed…So you think that because you had a convo about your now trifling nigg that I called harassing you….you think that im the only chick that hes probably trying to get with….anyway back to the story…she asks, I say no I have no reason…matter of fact, you asked if you could call me and I gave you my number, so knowing that you have my info, why would I harass you on your phone and I don’t have your number…so what does she say…well my number is on facebook….SO NOW IM THE ONLY FEMALE ON FACEBOOK THAT KNOWS 6’4….WOW….good one. He takes the phone back, I take it away from my ear and say I don’t have time for this BS and I hang up. The next morning I put up a facebook status, referring to the highschool drama that occurred the night before….LO AND BEHOLD, WHO SENDS ME A MESSAGE….Lets break this down real quick…yes, I went to GSU but the only way you could see my status change is if youre my friend…SHES NOT…so clearly someone went searching…anyway she said I challenged her womanhood and that he talked shit about me (surprising…**sarcasm**), said I was lying and talking mess and why would I if I broke up with him…but she didn’t know about the part 2 above….so her bad. Anyway she ended it with blessed day and I wished her the same without talking crap abt her “boyfriend”. So I will talk crap now….I don’t have time for this BS…If you were so grown or like I said in my status on your GROWN WOMAN, then you would’ve said bae, don’t call her, shes not worth it. And if yall were so GROWN then you should be prepared for the GROWN decision you made to call me late at night and know that I WAS GON TALK S&%$....because I can and because that’s MY FACEBOOK PAGE, MY STATUS UPDATE AND HOW I FEEL ABOUT PEOPLE CALLING ME ABOUT CRAZINESS. Im sooooo tired of niggs trying to play chicks and then clearly, if I would’ve told her that he was trying to get with me, on top of already saying he wasn’t claiming her…she wouldn’t believe me. of course hes gonna talk crap about me, so he doesn’t look like he f&^$#@ up. CMON WOMEN…PLEASE SEE THE SIGNS…And IF IM NOT CALLING YOU THEN THERE IS SOME CHICK HE IS TRYING TO GET AT….THERE IS NO SURPRISE YALL ARE TOGETHER…YALL HAD AN ARGUMENT OVER HIS “STATUS” ON FACEBOOK….CMON….All I ask is for people NOT TO DO ME DAMN!!! I know she will probably say something to him and seriously I don’t want to do ballistic…I really really don’t. I have handled this situation very maturely and I want to keep it like that. I rather act a fool on the blog and my statuses than say what I really want to say about him. BECAUSE ITS NOT EVEN ABOUT HER…ITS ABOUT HIM AND HIS ASDASDKJH2383274897324987329************…..**ALL EXPLICITS********
THAT BETTA BE THE FIRST AND LAST PHONE CALL ABOUT THAT MESS.

Mid-20s High school drama...part 1

So Ive had my fair share of interesting situations and this isn’t the most interesting but its “write” worthy. So the title seems crazy but its true; its mainly referring to the length of time the relationship lasted…a WHOLE 3.5 WEEKS!!! Damn in my mid-20s…for real?!!?? In the words of one of my homeboys…”it be like that sometimes”. So this guy was really really attractive…you know 6’4, brown-skinned, the right amount of thickness, cool personality…but who knew that there was this short fuse and ridiculousness hidden behind all of this attractiveness. So I wont make this long, but I will give you highlights. This experience proved to me that I am in fact growing up and that I can peep game early on. Me being the sweet and understanding person I can be, understood when my man was having transportation issues and had to get around…but when it turns into just transporting you to and from and not about chillin with your girl, its an issue for me; or when you question me, after I let you know I cant do something for you or when you get mad at me because I cant do something for you. How does this make me feel?? It makes me feel like you only want me around when it can benefit you. I express to you how I feel and you completely go BALISTIC!! I mean curse word after curse word (from what I could understand) and you completely ignored what I was trying to explain. Yall even after he cursed me out and ended it (this is all through email bc he didn’t want to wait to talk in person), I didn’t even go off on him. I said okay and let it go…I was shocked at myself. Yes, I had the initial thought to be at his house waiting for him with a crew in tote, but I let it go. I figured this young, obviously immature, child of God didn’t know any better and that he wasn’t even worth the rise in blood pressure he would cause. That happened on a Monday and as sure as my name is Janee’ Antoinette McDaniel, he called that Friday apologizing. He said he figured that was where I was headed in my email (breaking up with him), so I responded by saying, oh so is it a competition? That’s crazy…he had me explain the email, basically restating everything I said in the email and then magically he understood where I was coming from. WOW…really??? So then he says well I know you accepted my apology so where do we go from here…ummmm no where…why would I want someone who has a short fuse, that may be slightly crazy and as of last week, according to the handy dandy FACEBOOK…IS ALREADY IN A RELATIONSHIP…what does that equal boys and girls that he was probably trifling and talking to me and this chick or that he just works fast. Well young buck, I hope you find what youre looking for and that you grow up…cuz this woman is saying…”Men are like buses, miss one next fifteen one comin’” LMAO