Baby on Board

Excuse my language but we all know shit happens...Sometimes it works out for the best, sometimes it doesnt, sometimes happy, sometimes sad. I love this person, with all my heart and soul---but I think this situation will absolutely ruin our friendship. The chick already doesnt feel comfortable with me and now that she's carrying his child, its a wrap. She doesnt trust him, she resides in another state, most of the time, they are currently not together, which she is about to change. She got a good one...she did and it pisses me off that she has him. Yes, its true, I have feelings for him but its also true that hes a really good friend of mine and I want him to be happy and I dont get the feeling that this is a good situation. He wants me as the Godmother, he expects me to be there for him, when shes not around, he wants me to be there waiting on him when we turn 27, if we're arent with anybody....hes asking for waaaaayyyyy tooooo much. Of course I'm gonna be there for him but I refuse to play the fool. This is a love lost...if it hasnt happened, it wont happen now or 2 years from now. So if this was a letter to him, I would say this in a nut shell:

I am your bestfriend...I love you. I think this situation wont be as cut and dry as yall discussed. If you want me there, I will be there but keep in mind that you are dealing with a woman who doesnt trust you, let alone me. I WILL NOT overstep any boundaries, as it pertains to yall relationship or yall child. I feel like it should be understood, on her part, that if you need me or want me in the child's life then thats whats gonna happen. I also feel like you should make it work with her and stop trying to include me in being in your life, other than being your bestfriend. I refuse to let you or anybody use me, after they have exhausted all other possibilities and then decide that oh, I think Janee' can do the job. I will be there for you but I dont want any drama from your baby mama.

With Love,
J.A.M.